November 2, 2005
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Adoption
Did you know that my sister was adopted? Hahahaha.... ok, I"m just kidding. Even tho we don't look alike.
I'd be pretty open to adopting kids, maybe as well as having my own. If for some reason I couldn't have kids of my own, I'd definitely adopt. I think its a natural human tendency to raise a family. Some people see it as a extension of their legacy, a way for them to live forever thru their children. Its also human nature to seek something that goes beyond one's self and hope for something better. And there are few things that offer more hope than a childs unrealized potential.
On a random note, I've briefly wondered about having children from different ethnicities. What kind of looks would we get if I walked around with son(black) and daughter(white).
You know how asian people always remark on how kids look like one parent or another?
"Such cute children...they look just like....uhm....yea..."
I doubt I'm up for the challenge of raising a multi-ethnic family.
So would you ever adopt? And would you adopt outside of your own race?
Comments (41)
sure id adopt...too many children in the world without proper homes. is it awful for me to say i wanted them fresh tho? like young and untainted by the evils of the world??
i would absolutely adopt and adopt outside of my race. but, secretly, i want to know what my own kids are going to look like. is that weird?
I dunno if you remember the cartoon "The Bionic Six" in the 80's... that family was a multiethic family... ofcourse the asian kid was the kung-fu fighter...
yeah i would definitely adopt...outside of race too
I don't think personally I could, not with my family situation. Some of my relatives are pretty straight forward about their opinions of certain races in America let's just say. It would be uncomfortable, I wish I was a hermit and lived all by myself without any contact with some relatives, but I'm not, so it wouldn't be the best environment for the child. My two cents.
definitely! but i prefer asian kids, it gets complicated if i raise a non-asian child. they'll start asking questions about their real parents blah, blah blah.
i would definitely adopt.1. there are too many children in the world without homes and too many people who want kids, why not match up? 2. the world is a bad place, why bring more children into this world?
i actually have a kid. his name is mamoud and he is 11 years old from egypt.
i would adopt and it would be a chinese girl from china. sad to think how many of them are living there w/o proper care.
no, not because it's my own. its because i don't want any kids at all.
i've been thinking the same thing lately...weird.
will you marry me? =P
I'm all in for adoption! I fear the pain of labor + the pre 9 months + the after effects also hehehe... and besides, there are many needy children out there that lacks care from a loving family. It's the least I can do for this world. But this is all speaking with the ability and readiness to raise a child.
yes and yes.
yup. and (legal) hapa girls are hawt!
i'll just die from "she did too much cleaning because he's too messy" syndrome =)
either that or inhaling too many cleaning product fumes
i'd adopt a non asian just to see the looks on their faces when they call their name. "Hello Shaneequa.... Chan?"
Why this subject suddenly? hehe, someone must want kids soon! My answer is Yes and Yes. And I think mixed kids are awfully hot looking.
yes, but no
if i had kids, i would only adopt ALL my kids, or have all my own kids...no adopting one, giving birth to another, that's bound to create problems in the future..
i would def adopt if i couldnt have children.in fact if adoption wasn't so expnesive i'd prefer it. better than giving birth lol. i know im prob not up to the challenge of adopting a non asian child though.
i'd adopt & don't care about the ethnicity....what's that really matter when it comes down to it? you're raising the child, so they will learn your values....screw the looks from others.
I personally have nothing against adoption, but I think that as a personal choice, I wouldn't want to unless I had to, and if I had to, I'd probably adopt a Korean child, if only because so many are already exported for that sole purpose. I heard once that children are Korea's number one export. o_O To be honest, I think I would rather the child grow up in a familiar ethnic environment, because otherwise they are alienated from their roots, from their heritage, and the unfortunate part is that throughout their whole lives they can never escape it, because it's written all over their face. Inevitably, I think it ultimately leads to issues with identity. At least if I adopt a Korean child, they'll have some exposure to their history, heritage, and identity. Depending on the age of the child, it won't force them to completely relearn everything they know.
The thing is, though, that in Korean culture, adopting another person's child is not looked favorably upon. People seem to tend to have an aversion towards raising a stranger's children. I guess part of the reason for this is because family and blood ties are so important in our culture. Who you are becomes intimately tied to who your family is. For this reason, I already know how my family (and extended family) will probably react to an adopted child, even if they're Korean. The uncertainty of not knowing the child's genealogy makes them all terribly uneasy.
DEFINITELY. i've seen live labor one too many times NOT to adopt. im actually planning to adopt a korean or cambodian child. does that count as adopting "outside" my race? cuz really...besides asians (and NOT the majority of them), who can tell the difference between a chinese, korean, or cambodian kid??? ...especially in my case since i dont even look chinese! ...in fact, I think I'M adopted!
yes i'd adopt and yes i'd adopt outside of my own race.
ew it's you.
well it's what race you are in the inside that counts
i would adopt a kid regardless of ethnicity. i want to raise athletic kids, and if i go asian, i have to rule out football and basketball. going black would open up lots of interesting options.
on a serious note, i mentored a korean kid adopted by a non-korean family and he was an absolutely incredible kid. i almost kidnapped him on several occasions.
he is super bright, loves baseball, is very outgoing and friendly....anyone that meets this kid will want to run out and get one for themselves.
where did you get this topic from?? it's weird cuz larry and i were just discussing this a few days ago...lol....
i dont mind adopting from other ethnicities.... but i always think about helping out my own first. china's got an unloaded orphanage with abadoned girls. i'd like to help someone out.
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hahaha love ur post, well if u cant have any then adopt, there r also azn kids too
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Yes I would adopt! Question is, would you adopt even if you can have children?
i think I would adopt and as for outside of my race, we'll have to see what my husband and I decide.. I wouldn't be opposed to it but I dunno as of right now... I would prefer a kid that was asian so that he could learn more about his heritage but I wouldn't mind having a multi-ethnic family that were totally Asian-oriented... heheh
I would adopt... definitely.
you have a sister? i never knew~!
i'd totally adopt. i just love kids!
Although I know I'll one day have a family, I'm not ready to think about taking care of a kid right now, adopted or my own. hmm So I guess I would only adopt if I couldn't have kids of my own but at this point in my life, I WANT NOOOO KIDS!
hmmm I just saw and episode of Emeril live on food network where the family was multi ethnic through adoption or foster home...but it was interesting to see everyone getting along just fine and some people having southern accents (some of the white folk) and others not (Afr. girl, Asn girl, white girl) dude I was almost expecting everyone to have a southern accent.. =(
Can't wait to start a family now huh? Its ok, you're only 30 not 36....
yehh....i guess i would
i would only adopt from my own race. but who knows, now that i said that i'll probably fall in love with a baby of another race.
Awww...yeah! Adopting kids...cool...tear...smile...
I'd adopt and I would adopt outside my race, I grew up in Africa and have seen the squalor and how many orphans there are out there. I have never really liked children, but I know that when and if I get to that stage of my life, I am willing to do what is needed.
absolutely and yes -- but i don't think i can handle a brack baby.
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